Klaus Joehle 'Living on Love' books :: View topic - Question to Klaus Joehle

Posted: Thu May 11, 2006 8:08 am

Dear all,

I mailed this question to Klaus Joehle, but everyone's view on this would be welcomed.

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Dear Klaus,

First of all, I was wondering or you are still working with love. The effects of sending love which you descriped in the epologue of ''the messenger' are amazing.

On this moment in my love I want to learn to work with love. Most difficult I find it to feel the love. Therefore I was wondering or the principles you use in creating the 3,6 million can be applied to create love in your life. For instance, do you think it would help if I am daydreaming about how I would feel if I was loved by everyone I meet, because it is easier to send love as you feel that you self are loved too.

Would it help to feel as much as possible how it would feel if eveyone would love me like I was their son, or brother or lover. Or am I deluding myself than too much?

I would really appreciate your view on this...

thanks,
Rick

Posted: Thu May 11, 2006 5:16 pm

I think experiencing (day-dreaming) that everybody loves you - is a great idea!

In reply to this and other questions from Rick, Klaus created a May 2006 talk titled "Stop trying to hug me!"

Posted: Mon May 22, 2006 6:24 am

Hey, I just remembered a trick one Russian girl has shared somewhere - trying to think of others and deal with them "as if" you are in love with them.

To me it sounds like a form of sending love.

Another variation of it is was proposed by Alena Nefedova (Ofigello) - imagining you are hugging strangers on the street.

Another thing was invented by fitness instructor Kostya (and told me by Vofka Soloviev) - imagining you are giving money to strangers.

Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 8:01 am

Shalala wrote in a new topic:

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Hello,

somewhere I read that Klaus Joehle advices to send love with an intent:

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Now with sending love the most important thing it being very firm and detailed about what you want this love to do. I know that this is not what I said in the first book but I have come to the conclusion that this is most important thing. Originally I said to just send love and let it do what it wants but as it turns out love is much more powerful if it is sent with a specific intent.

Well, my intention is: I will that people which I meet feel the love surrounding me and feel attracted to me (especially the ladies :wink: ).

my question: is it OK to send love with this intent? Isn't it egoistic and therefore will have a reverse effect?

Rick I have moved this message here, because it's on the same topic.

As to your question, 15 years ago I would say something completely different, but now I'm telling you that sending your love with the intent for others to love you is good -- IF you enjoy it and feel good about it.

Especially sending love and radiating love with the intention for ladies to love you and be attracted to you!

Do you feel good about others loving you? (You should.) :)))

Posted: Tue May 30, 2006 7:53 pm

yes it feels good imaging that Laughing

It is much more easier to send love when you feel loved by yourself

Posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 4:48 pm

If you start sending love not necessarily with the purpose to be loved by others, you will automatically start to attract people, including the opposite sex. I'll tell you my experience.

I joined a couple of chat sites long time ago. In time my activity there kinda died, I was bored and hadn't been back there for a long time, wasn't getting any messages from the members for months until suddenly I started getting loads of messages every day from different people wanting to correspond with me. Now the curious thing is that it coincided with my practicing sending love. It was so cool to acknowledge! I wasn't really looking for a romance or friendship so I wasn't wishing it to happen but it just happened. I figure it's one of the nice "side-effects" of sending love. So don't complicate it too much, just start sending love and be amazed by what happens.

Posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 5:50 pm

Ha-ha! Pretty cool example!

Posted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 3:58 pm

Please look at this topic with basically same question:
http://www.armbell.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=1363&mforum=lovebook2

Also in Louis blog:

http://www.louisyagera.com/2007/04/07/getting-out-of-shyness/
http://www.louisyagera.com/2007/05/30/energized-by-love-and-feeling-loved-by-everyone/

Posted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 8:22 pm

Concerning the frame to always feel loved and loving, theres a great afffirmation to use, it is: "I AM TRULY LOVED".
To feel truly loved all the time is amazing.

It is by this guy:http://www.ideagasms.net/index.php?option=content&task=view&id=77 Wink

Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 11:56 pm

Die Welt kann manchmal kleiner sein als wir denken Smile

translation:
The World is at times smaller than we think

Stephane is a GREAT person.

I LOVE HIS FRAME ABOUT SEX, RELATIONSHIP, DATING AND PICKUP Very Happy

It is very hard, to fight against social programming trying to destroy our desire for people because we "arent worth it".

If some people only want to be in love with 1 person thats fine for me - but I will love wathever great being crosses my path - or at least try it ;D

Religion has injectet so many insane beliefs in us it is tempting to feel bad about it hehe but we dont have to - really. Just use EFT if you dont allready experienced its great effects look it up at google...

A lot of Love to all. Especially to the "love-artists"

Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 1:39 pm

welcome in the pua love order. lol Wink

Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 4:47 pm

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Hehe, thats it.
This blog entry by Stephane is great: http://ideagasms.blogspot.com/2007/07/learning-game-eventually-becomes.html

Steph is very right with this one: "Once a man knows meditation, he can never go back... meditation spoils everything Wink

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For a balanced, meditating being, heart-centered pick-up becomes the only suitable thing the pua-community has to offer.